Building A New Computer – Part 1

Once upon a time I would either build or help others build a new computer once or twice a year. These projects were always fun and interesting, and I normally enjoyed each step in the process. Trying to build with a budget in mind and get the best bang per buck, and ensuring compatibility and optimal performance in an era that predates PC Part Picker added an extra layer of nerdy challenge.

However, as time went on my friends and I stopped building as much. Getting older meant we had the opposite problem as our younger selves: more money but less time. This made buying pre-builts more appealing. Others (myself included) fell into another bucket: the gaming rig simply didn’t need upgrading.

I think young me really enjoyed more demanding games. I was still young in the nascent era of hyper-realistic first person shooters that started to require serious hardware to perform. But older me is putzing around in games like Stardew Valley, Guild of Dungeoneering, Dome Keeper, and Monster Hunter Rise. Although all impressive in their own ways, most are many years old and the only 3D title (Monster Hunter Rise) was built to run on the Nintendo Switch which had low specs even when it launched in 2017. None of these games are very demanding. In fact, I have yet to run into anything I want to play on the Steam Deck that it can’t handle in a way I find acceptable.

Truly I have become less discerning over time, but there is also simply so much more choice in what to play and lots of good games do not require that much computational horsepower. This has lead me to keeping Typhon, my main computer, for far longer than I ever expected.

Typhon was built in November 2011. Little did I know that the Intel i7-2600k (there were no i9’s in this era) would be a real champion. Over the 11 years of Typhon’s existence I have had numerous hardware failures: broken hard drives, dead RAM sticks, the NIC on the motherboard, and two GPUs. But the i7-2600k continues to perform to this day. I think it is clear that the processors Intel produces are very likely to outlive the components they slot into, and I worry the day will come that the ASUS P8Z68-V PRO motherboard will finally give out and not be cheaply replaced.

There have been hints of Typhon showing its age over time, but with some maintenance and modernization I’ve always managed to go further than expected. In 2011 when the machine was built you could get a 120GB SATA III SSD for $150. Over the course of three operating systems (Win7, Win 8, and Win10) this really turned out to be not enough. Now you can get 1TB for $70, or $100 if you want a DRAM cache included. As my GPUs died or became otherwise insufficient (I’m looking at you Witcher 3), it was always easy to upgrade and the difference in performance between PCIe 3.0 and PCIe 4.0 for GPUs is basically non-existent. Last year during an unfortunately timed GPU replacement I was “forced” to buy a 1TB M.2 NVME SSD PCIe 4.0 drive as part of a Newegg Shuffle. Given that my rig was over 10 years old it had me thinking about upgrading, but it turns out there are very cheap PCIe 3.0 adapters for an M.2 drive, and this breathed a whole new life into my long lived gaming machine. Never before had I felt such speed and responsiveness, and it had nothing to do with my CPU.

Although Typhon continues to work admirably, the weight of a hundred small things have added up, and I was just waiting for a push into the upgrading camp. With the addition of the M.2 drive I thought upgrades would be a few more years out, and they could be. The only time I’d really maxed out the i7-2600k was when downloading games on Steam. With a gigabit WAN connection the CPU actually cannot process data fast enough to feed it from the NIC to the M.2 SSD. Strangely the storage and the network are now faster than the CPU during sustained max throughput. But even that I can live with. It is not necessary to download games at gigabit speeds. Ultimately, Microsoft and Windows 11 are my culprit. Typhon predates TPM 2.0 being released, and unless Microsoft relaxes this rule then Typhon will remain on Windows 10 forever (or something more drastic).

Separately from Typhon I also run a little Ubuntu server called Hermes. It was built to be an always-on box used for hosting game servers, software development, and other linuxy things. This computer too has started to show its age and wane in usefulness. Over time we migrated away from Ventrilo and Mumble servers to Discord. We’ve stopped playing the various Minecraft servers, but we may come back to them some day. And, somewhat to my surprise, the small hard drives and SSDs in this machine are actually not big enough to do some of the computing tasks I’m interested in doing. The only thing this server now runs is FoundryVTT, and that hardly warrants a separate machine running 24/7.

With the writing on the wall for both of these machines I started to reintegrate myself into the computer building hobby, and it was like reconnecting with an old friend. It was so great to catch up and see all of the changes that have been made over the past 5-10 years that I have not been paying particularly close attention to. PCIe 5.0 is here! These NVMEs really -are- that snappy! CPUs have so many cores now! Most computer cases don’t have 5.25″ bays anymore! There are motherboards that cost $1500!? And literally everything has RGB.

Of course I knew of these things, but using a Macbook Pro at work for the last 7 years and not upgrading my gaming rig really led me to have a shallow understanding of the space. And, honestly, that was nice. There is no reason to keep up with the computing hardware horse race if you are happy with what you have, and I think people throw out computers for more frequently than they should. In a world with so much e-waste we really should be more concerned about having a computer that meets our needs than having the latest and greatest every few years.

Now is also a unique moment in time. AMD just launched Zen5 CPUs, Intel is launching Raptor Lake CPUs in three days, PCIe 5.0 is rolling out, and there are new GPUs from Nvidia, Intel, and AMD all dropping right now during a period of low demand across the board.

It is finally time to build a new computer.

It’s Not The Thing, It’s What We Make Of It – The Daily Stoic – Part 15 of 366

When you are distressed by an external thing, it’s not the thing itself that troubles you, but only your judgement of it. And you can wipe this out at a moment’s notice.

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 8.47

The book’s example after this quote is about Franklin Delano Roosevelt. He spent his whole life dreaming and preparing for his career in politics, but at 39 he got polio. Did he let this horrible disease, an “external thing,” end his hopes and dreams of winning the presidency? We all know the answer given that FDR is widely regarded as one of the greatest political figures in American history.

This one also hits home for me. As we’ve touched on in the past, it is easy to feel like life was unfair in the hand it dealt you and then use that as fuel to generate a myriad of reasons why you don’t have what you want. My dad became disabled when I was in fourth grade. My mother got breast cancer a couple years later, and she died when I was in eleventh grade. My maternal grandfather died that same year. The knock on effects of these events were huge. Almost everything in life changed in some way. My entire childhood was defined by these events, and they were all outside of my control.

It took me a long time to make my peace. Ultimately the feelings of worry, anger, stress, disdain, and sadness were generated from within, and they were holding me back. Changing how I thought about these things very likely saved my life, and only now am I able to look back and see how fortunate I still was in so many ways.

The book ends with the line, “Let’s not confuse acceptance with passivity.” This is an important note. The idea is not to invalidate your feelings, to ignore things, or not to care. It is not about lack of agency, or abdicating your desires and ability (and responsibility) to act. From my view, you should experience the emotions as they come to you. It is good to be sad when sad things happen. But don’t get stuck and dwell on it for too long.

Time moves on, and so should you. Accept the things you cannot change.

Always The Same – The Daily Stoic – Part 14 of 366

Think by way of example on the times of Vespasian, and you’ll see all these things: marrying, raising children, falling ill, dying, wars, holiday feasts, commerce, farming, flattering, pretending, suspecting, scheming, praying that others die, grumbling over one’s lot, falling in love, amassing fortunes, lusting after office and power. Now that life of theirs is dead and gone… the times of Trajan, again the same…

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 4.32

It is easy to think we now live at the apex of human society, with our impressive technology and handful of accomplishments truly defining of our species. The Industrial Revolution. The invention of flight. The moon landing. The Internet.

But, truthfully, evolution takes a long time to occur. It takes a duration so long it is not easily comprehended by humans. Humans today are not appreciably different from humans 50, 100, or 1000 years ago. Sure, we have more technology and knowledge at our finger tips, but that largely does not change who and what we are. As Marcus Aurelius points out, we largely do what our ancestors did. Our ancestors will do largely what we do. Per the book, “With a few exceptions, things are the same as they’ve always been and always will be.”

We are all, for a brief time, passengers on the starship of Earth. It was here long before we were born, and it will be here long after we are gone. Radical change is not in the cards. Humans are humans, and they do what humans do. Make your peace with that and you improve your chances of a pleasant journey through the cosmos.

All Is Fluid – The Daily Stoic – Part 13 of 366

The universe is change. Life is opinion.

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 4.3.4b

When our hair grows long we cut it. If our nails grow long we cut them. When our cells die they are replaced by new ones. The skin on your body is entirely different than the skin you had 27 days ago.

Are you still the same person? Or are you a new one? Strictly speaking the matter that makes up who you are is entirely new. And yet I think most would all agree we are still the same person; these molecular changes do not change who we are.

But what about your thoughts and memories? Those are constantly changing. What about your job? That is likely to change several times throughout your life. Where you live? Where you live now is probably different than where you grew up or went to college. How much do these things define who you, your family, and your friends are? How much do these things inform how you think and act?

The book notes that, “Our understanding of what something is is just a snapshot — an ephemeral opinion.” This is exactly right. How you view something today is based on so many different variables it is impossible to list them all. How you think about something tomorrow could be drastically different than how you thought about it today if something changes.

And it will. It always will. Change is the only constant.

It follows then that the more fluid and malleable you are in your thoughts, actions, and opinions, the smoother your journey through life will be. Being rigid should never be a point of pride as it shows a refusal to acknowledge the weight of the universe, and that is a losing battle.

Actors In A Play – The Daily Stoic – Part 12 of 366

Remember that you are an actor in a play, playing a character according to the will of the playwright — if a short play, then it’s short; if long, long. If he wishes you to play the beggar, play even that role well, just as you would if it were a cripple, a honcho, or an everyday person. For this is your duty, to perform well the character assigned you. That selection belongs to another.”

Epictetus, Enchiridion, 17

Play the hand you are dealt, and play it well. It is the only hand you get. This is the lesson the Epictetus is trying to impart. The book goes on to mention that accepting and fulfilling our part is not at odds with ambition which is not obvious at first glance. After all, if we are assigned a part then why try rising above our station? If we must play the beggar then how are we not locked into such a poor life?

There are many stories where the mighty fall, and there are many stories where the less fortunate rise. You may be assigned a part when you enter the story, but the story itself is not yet written. The question really is this: what do you want your story to be? If someone tells your tale, what will they say?

In order to change your story you must first accept and understand the role you have been tasked to play. You cannot change where the story starts or where it has already been, but once you are in control then your story will go wherever you wish.

How To Be Powerful – The Daily Stoic – Part 11 of 366

Don’t trust in your reputation, money, or position, but in the strength that is yours — namely, your judgements about the things that you control and don’t control. For this alone is what makes us free and unfettered, that picks us up by the neck from the depths and lifts us eye to eye with the rich and powerful.

Epictetus, Discourses, 3.26.34-35

The book talks about a story in which a philosopher stands eye to eye with Alexander the Great, unwilling to move out of the way of him and his army. When asked what he has accomplished compared to Alexander, he replies, “I have conquered the need to conquer the world.”

Reputation, money, position, fame, and so on can all be stripped away. They are things conferred unto us by other people and society. All humans desire these things to varying degrees. Unfortunately, they are not entirely within our realm of control.

This too is a hard lesson. Money truly seems very important, and when you don’t have enough life is indeed miserable. It is understandable why most people make such concessions to obtain it, even if they must do so at the expense of their individual freedoms. But I do think many (including myself) put perhaps too high a premium on it.

It doesn’t always feel like it, but you can always earn more money. It is worth making sure that you are not trading too much in return for it, both in terms of time, stress, and moral authority.

This is a timely and relevant passage. I don’t normally think of myself a kingdom builder, but I am more that than many I know. It has taken more deliberate action than I expected in passing the baton and handing over the keys to things I have spent five or more years building. Letting go is not easy for me. And yet I know that for the next cycle to begin I must learn to accept these things and cherish the chance to create an opportunities for others around me while I get out of the way.

Someone Else Is Spinning the Thread – The Daily Stoic – Part 10 of 366

If the breaking day sees someone proud,
The ending day sees them brought low.
No one should put too much trust in triumph,
No one should give up hope of trials improving.
Clotho mixes one with the other and stops
Fortune from resting, spinning every fate around.
No one has had so much divine favor
That they could guarantee themselves tomorrow.
God keeps our lives hurtling on,
Spinning in a whirlwind.

Seneca, Thyestes, 613

According to the book, Clotho is one of the three Greek goddesses of fate who “spins” the threads of human life. The playwright Aeschylus wrote, “When the gods send evil, one cannot escape it.” The same was true for great destiny and fortune.

This is another example of acceptance. We are not in control, and what will happen will happen regardless. However, this quote digs into another facet of this concept. What is today may not be tomorrow. Nothing lasts forever. A triumph can be come a trial, and a trial a triumph in an instant.

What you are experiencing now will pass. Let this be a sobering fact because it applies to both the good and bad.

A Higher Power – The Daily Stoic – Part 9 of 366

This is the very thing which makes up the virtue of the happy person and a well-flowing life — when the affairs of life are in every way tuned to the harmony between the individual divine spirit and the will of the director of the universe.

Chrysippus, Quoted in Diogenes Laertius, Lives of the Eminent Philosophers, 7.1.88

For this quote the book talks about addicts struggling in a 12 step program where step 2 is acknowledge a higher power. At first glance this feels like a religious platitude, and it is not necessarily helpful to the nonreligious. But the point really has nothing to do with religion at all. The fundamental idea is to accept that the world does not revolve around us. It is much too big for that. We are not at the center, and we are not in control. We are simply along for the ride of life. As the book says, “As soon as you can attune your spirit to that idea, the easier and happier your life will be, because you will have given up the most potent addiction of all: control.” What a great way to phrase it — “attune your spirit to that idea.” How you think about and understand the world and your relationship to it is entirely within your control, and yet this is something that most people spend very little time thinking about.

I am not a religious man, and I have not been for a very long time. But I also figured out long ago that not being religious does not mean you cannot be spiritual. In the Neil DeGrasse Tyson interview with TIME magazine he is asked about the The Most Astounding Fact, and this helped me more concretely frame and explain my spiritual views ever since. You do not need to believe in a god to see the beauty and feel kinship with the Universe at large. In so many ways we are just a brief jumble of particles that have coalesced in a way for the Universe to view and experience itself. Our atoms will return on their journey before too long, and we should treasure the time given to us to experience this cosmic adventure.

When considering the big picture, we are not in control. We are along for the ride.

Not Good, Nor Bad – The Daily Stoic – Part 8 of 366

There is no evil in things changing, just as there is no good in persisting in a new state.

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 4.42

Events are neither good or bad. They just are. In fact, they are objectively pure. The universe does not actually have an agenda since it is primarily a physics simulation.

The book notes that the Stoics would remind everyone of this fact. The status quo is not inherently good and change is not inherently bad, and the reverse is also true. The goal, then, is to make the most out of every situation.

Accept what is and adjust your attitude accordingly.

The Cycle

At the end of 2018 I wrote a post called What Do You Want? where I detailed achieving a goal I focused almost solely on for five years, and how that left me feeling… well, just feeling. Lots of feels. And ultimately I wasn’t sure what to do next other than keep going.

Since then it seems life was happy to keep me preoccupied with other things. New projects and challenges at work, a country in turmoil, a long distance relationship, adopting a cute senior pup, a global pandemic, and the loss of my father. And so I went, goal-less, for the past few years; just riding with the currents of life and unsure where exactly I wanted to go.

Honestly, while this was a departure from how I normally operate, it was kind of freeing to not have the yearly summit where I harshly analyze my progress and work diligently on course corrections. If ever there was a time to give myself grace, it would seem 2019 and 2020 were it. Now emerging from both the chaos and unstructured years, I do find myself slowly returning to things I once held dear.

I have always been an active learner, but it has grown more passive over time. I have generally felt over the years that work has left little bandwidth to want to program and experiment outside of it, yet I am seemingly happy to watch any number of Youtube videos on business, programming, and the like. Putting in more effort than that seemed a challenging ask even though all of the years I spent programming before work were chock full of experiments.

The same is true for gaming. It used to be that if I was not at work or school then I would normally be playing games. And yet, for some reason, even that had become a challenging ask. Challenging to the point where even the thought of playing some games gave me anxiety. I turned myself invisible on Steam and on the Blizzard client, and my game libraries collected dust.

Looking back I think this is enitrely due to life events and not changing interests on my part. It turns out the middle years are messy even without a wife and kids. Careers, buying houses, aging parents, and paying more attention to the country and local community start to take up time and mind share in a way they don’t when you are young.

Some of these stressful situations finally resolving seem to have introduced a light at the end of the current tunnel. Now I have a bunch of things I want to program for fun, including some products with financial potential. I have books to read, research to do, blogs to write, places to go with my pup, and even games to play.

I am finally ready for the cycle to start again.